In a relationship, it is really normal to have misunderstandings, conflicts, quarrels, fights or arguments. but in some cases, these things become a necessity in order for the relationship to have its own twists & turns, ups & downs, humps & lumps! Haha! Funny but true… But looking at the issue deeper, who do you think suffers more? Is it the guy who did everything just to have the girl’s heart? Or is it the girl who has no other option but to wait for the guy’s heart?
Who carries the relationship? Is it the ones courting or the ones being courted?
The girls are the ones carrying the relationship. And we are the ones suffering the most in a relationship crisis!
Why?
Read more & find out..
SETTING: Sleepover in a girl’s place.
Happy: ish! nakakainis talaga! lagi na lang siyang busy! lagi na lang may ginagawa! wala na siyang time sa’kin!
Smile: ha? bakit? nag-away na naman kayo?
Happy: hindi.
Smile: e, ba’t ganyan itsura mo?
Heart: kaya nga.. don’t tell us you two are just having some sort of LQ again for the Nth time.
Happy: eh! ewan ko sa kanya. ba’t kasi nanligaw pa.
Heart: at ikaw naman ‘tong si tatanga-tanga, sinagot siya.
Smile: Heart, ‘di naman kasalanan ni Happy na sweet si jasper, e.
Heart: sweet nga, oo. sobra. pero mas inuuna ang dota sa girlfriend. mas nauuna pa ang drums kesa sa girlfriend..
Happy: importante lang talaga siguro yung ginagawa niya kaya ganun. don’t worry, i’ll just try to understand him na lang.
Heart: at bakit?
Happy: eh, ganun, e. i love him. wala naman akong magagawa kun’di maghintay.
Heart: until when are you willing to wait?
Smile: haay naku, Heart. tama na. pinapaiyak mo ang beshie natin..
Heart: well, ok then.
Happy: hindi ko talaga maintindihan ang mga lalaki.
Smile: sino bang nakakaintindi sa kanila? liligawan ka tapos uunahin ang paglalaro ng dota.. susuyuin ka pagkatapos mas gugustuhin pang pumalo ng drums.. ano kaya ‘yun?
Heart: sa una lang sila sweet. pag nagtagal na, mawawala na tapos eventually magsasawa na. then-there! break na! that’s the end of our dream-come-true-never-Happy-ending fairytale!
Happy: ‘di naman ako nagkulang sa kanya, e. bakit ganito?
Smile: we girls give our everything in everything that we do.. kailan tayo nagbigay ng kulang? lahat binibigay natin.. wala na ngang natitira sa’tin, e.
Happy: ‘yun na nga, e. tapos later on, konting lambing lang ulit sa’kin ni jasper, game na naman ako. konting blue roses lang at simpleng kanta ng i do love na love ko na ulit siya.
Heart: why not break up with him?
Happy: what?! no way! i have waited for him to become my boyfriend for such a time! i can’t just drop him that easy..
Smile: so, anong plano mo?
Happy: ano pa nga ba? intindihin siya. as if naman kaya ko pag naghiwalay kami.. buti sana kung lahat ng hirap at sakit naibubuga lang sa isang hithit ng yosi at ang lahat ng hinanakit ay nasusuka sa isang bote ng beer.
CONCLUSION: Girls are the ones suffering more in a relationship. We wait. We wait. We wait. All we can do is to wait. We understand. We forgive. We forget. And yet, we get hurt.
